The idea of "no questions asked/and no judgement" was seeded by the thought, or fear, of our loved ones (presumably our children), either driving while intoxicated or reluctantly getting into a car with a friend/driver who has been drinking.  But, while the thought of drinking and driving was the impetus for this venture, we realized during the process of development that it's a concept that can be used for ANYTHING specific to individual circumstances.  It's our mission to save lives because we're passionate about offering a safe landing spot for our children, or loved ones, if a dangerous situation OR life in general ever gets to be too much for an individual to deal with.  It's something we want for EVERYONE, not just our own. ​

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The way it works:  Have your loved one/s place their 'no questions asked' card

in their wallet and wear or display their 'and no judgement' wrist band as a

consistent reminder that can be automatically recalled if the need ever arises. 

As the giver, please place your wrist band in a conspicuous place OR wear it

so that your loved one/s notices and finds comfort in the the fact that you will

honor your words, if need be, in the future. (ex., rear-view mirror, kitchen key holder

hook, knob on cabinet in the living room, etc...)  Explain to them that your love is

unconditional.  Should your loved one/s ever find themselves in a dangerous

situation, they'll know they can pick up the phone, call you, and you'll leave

to collect them, no questions asked.  The next day a conversation may be

needed, but with no judgement laid upon their shoulders.  *Please add any

pertinent numbers to the back of the card in case it's a friend who has to make

the call.

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EVERYONE makes mistakes, but with children, and even young adults, sometimes they feel locked in their mistake with no way out, which can have grave repercussions.  We want to abate those fears through conversation and visual reminders.  Whether your child has made a mistake because of impulsive behavior, carelessness, etc….they need to know they have a support system that will help them quickly get out of the immediate danger they’ve landed in. 

 

For example:

-They’ve met someone online and they wind up in a precarious/dangerous situation.

-They’ve drank too much OR their designated driver has, and they need to get home.

-A THOUSAND other reasons.

 

Our vision of this concept is NOT to be used as a 'get out of jail free pass' for daily misconduct or behavioral issues that should be dealt with by a predetermined set of rules specified by parental expectations, but rather it's for those times where dire consequences may ensue if a call isn't made 'in the moment'. ​

 

THAT BEING SAID, this is specific to you and YOUR needs, so if your child has made a mistake such as vandalizing someone's home, stolen something from someone, hurt someone at school, sent inappropriate pictures to someone online, etc.... and their internal struggle is affecting their daily routine, they NEED to know they can talk to you and you won't judge them, but will instead have a conversation with them about solutions and finding a pathway forward to get out of their situation. 

 

Nothing is insurmountable, but to a child, it may seem that way. Paramount to anything and everything is your child's, OR loved one's, well-being....and this is what the no questions asked/and no judgement concept is all about, and with 3 words, you may save the life of the one you love the most.​

 

Have a blessed day!​

Genny and Lee